Netflix reality series Desi Bling has landed in controversy after filmmaker Lakshmi R Iyer criticised cast members Satish Sanpal and his wife Tabinda Sanpal for allegedly “normalising infidelity” and promoting problematic relationship dynamics on the show. The backlash began after a clip from the series went viral online, sparking intense debate among viewers over the couple’s comments about marriage and cheating.
Lakshmi R Iyer slams Satish and Tabinda Sanpal for normalising infidelity
The controversy erupted after Tabinda made remarks during one of the episodes about her husband partying with women. She said that she was aware Satish often went out with girls and implied that it only became an issue if he repeatedly met the same woman. The statement shocked many viewers, who accused the show of glorifying unhealthy and misogynistic behaviour under the guise of luxury entertainment.
Reacting strongly to the viral clip, Lakshmi R Iyer took to social media to condemn what she described as the dangerous normalisation of cheating in relationships. In her post, the filmmaker wrote, “Stop normalising this bullsh*t. Stop setting terrible examples in the name of being ‘modern’ or ‘cool’.” She further added, “Being loyal is still attractive. Being honest is still attractive.” Her remarks quickly gained attention online, with several users supporting her stance against the messaging portrayed in the show.
Devoleena Bhattacharjee also reacts to Lakshmi R Iyer`s post
Television actor Devoleena Bhattacharjee also reacted to Lakshmi’s statement and appeared to mock the justification presented in the episode. Commenting on the controversy, she wrote, “Apparently the man will fall in love if he meets the same woman.” Her sarcastic reaction further fuelled online discussions surrounding Desi Bling and its portrayal of relationships.
The show, which follows the extravagant lives of wealthy Indian expatriates in Dubai, has already been attracting attention for its luxurious lifestyles, billionaire culture, and dramatic interpersonal conflicts. Alongside socialites and business tycoons, the series also features television stars Karan Kundrra and Tejasswi Prakash, whose engagement on the show recently became a viral talking point.
Meanwhile, online reactions remain sharply divided. While some viewers defended the cast’s openness about unconventional relationships, many others criticised the show for glamorising toxic dynamics and patriarchal attitudes. Reddit discussions and social media commentary have particularly targeted Satish and Tabinda’s relationship, with several users calling the couple “cringe” and accusing the series of promoting regressive ideas despite its glamorous presentation.
